Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Philosophy of Education: Famous Philosopher's Quotes on Educational Philosophy, Teaching Philosophy Truth Reality
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Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Willpower Advice from My Grandfather.
"The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore."
"You have a very powerful mind that can make anything happen as long as you keep yourself centered.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will."
"Will power is to the mind like a strong blind man who carries on his shoulders a lame man who can see."
"The world is full of willing people, some willing to work, the rest willing to let them."
"Great souls have wills; feeble ones have only wishes."
"A man can do all things if he but wills them."
"People do not lack strength; they lack will."
"What you have to do and the way you have to do it is incredibly simple. Whether you are willing to do it, that's another matter."
"Will is character in action."
"It is fatal to enter any war without the will to win it."
"Free will and determinism are like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you is determinism. The way you play your hand is free will."
"Self-will so ardent and active that it will break a world to pieces to make a stool to sit on."
"They can conquer who believe they can. He has not learned the first lesson is life who does not every day surmount a fear."
"The time is always right to do what is right."
"Your own mind is a sacred enclosure into which nothing harmful can enter except by your promotion."
"'Tis better to be alone than in bad company.'"
"It is not because things are different that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.”
"You have a very powerful mind that can make anything happen as long as you keep yourself centered.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will."
"Will power is to the mind like a strong blind man who carries on his shoulders a lame man who can see."
"The world is full of willing people, some willing to work, the rest willing to let them."
"Great souls have wills; feeble ones have only wishes."
"A man can do all things if he but wills them."
"People do not lack strength; they lack will."
"What you have to do and the way you have to do it is incredibly simple. Whether you are willing to do it, that's another matter."
"Will is character in action."
"It is fatal to enter any war without the will to win it."
"Free will and determinism are like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you is determinism. The way you play your hand is free will."
"Self-will so ardent and active that it will break a world to pieces to make a stool to sit on."
"They can conquer who believe they can. He has not learned the first lesson is life who does not every day surmount a fear."
"The time is always right to do what is right."
"Your own mind is a sacred enclosure into which nothing harmful can enter except by your promotion."
"'Tis better to be alone than in bad company.'"
THE ONE THING THAT CHANGES EVERYTHING
There is one thing that is common to every individual, relationship, team, family, organization, nation, economy, and and civilization throughout the world - one thing which, if removed, will destroy the most powerful goverment, the most succesful business, the most thriving economy, the most influential leadership, the greatest friendship, the strongest character, the deepest love.
on the other hand, if developed and leveraged, that one thing has the potential to create unparalleled success and prosperity in every dimension of life. yet, it is the least understood, he most neglected, and the most underestimated possibility of our time.
That one thing is trust.
Trust impacts us 24/7, 365 days a year. it undergirds and effects the quality of every relationship, every communication, every work project, every business venture, every effort in which are engaged. it changes the quality of every present moment and alters the trajectory and outcome of every future moment of our lives - both personally and professionally.
Contrary to what most people believe, trust is not some soft, illusive quality that you either have or you don't; rather, trust is pragmatic, tangible, actionable asset that you can create - much faster than you probably think possible .
While corporate scandals, terrorist threats, office politics, and broken relationship have created low trust on almost every front, i contend that the ability to establish, grow, extend, and restore trust is not only vital to our personal and interpersonal well-being; it is the key leadership competency of the new global economy.
I am convinced that in every situation, nothing is as fast as the speed of trust. and, contrary to the popular belief, trust is something you can do something about. in fact, you can get good creating it.
CHERUIYOT ORIOP LANGAT.
on the other hand, if developed and leveraged, that one thing has the potential to create unparalleled success and prosperity in every dimension of life. yet, it is the least understood, he most neglected, and the most underestimated possibility of our time.
That one thing is trust.
Trust impacts us 24/7, 365 days a year. it undergirds and effects the quality of every relationship, every communication, every work project, every business venture, every effort in which are engaged. it changes the quality of every present moment and alters the trajectory and outcome of every future moment of our lives - both personally and professionally.
Contrary to what most people believe, trust is not some soft, illusive quality that you either have or you don't; rather, trust is pragmatic, tangible, actionable asset that you can create - much faster than you probably think possible .
While corporate scandals, terrorist threats, office politics, and broken relationship have created low trust on almost every front, i contend that the ability to establish, grow, extend, and restore trust is not only vital to our personal and interpersonal well-being; it is the key leadership competency of the new global economy.
I am convinced that in every situation, nothing is as fast as the speed of trust. and, contrary to the popular belief, trust is something you can do something about. in fact, you can get good creating it.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Advice to Young Men from an Old Man
1. Don’t pick on the weak. It’s immoral. Don’t antagonize the strong without cause, its stupid.
2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time
3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized.
4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose.
5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests.
6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you.
7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean.
8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical.
9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit.
10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most power force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you.
11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you.
12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due.
13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves.
14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes.
15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else.
16. Keep fit.
17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part.
18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard.
19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for.
20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else.
21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else.
22. Have and nurture friendships with women.
23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss.
24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older.
25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence.
26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity.
27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there.
28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides.
29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about.
30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest.
2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time
3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized.
4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose.
5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests.
6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you.
7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean.
8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical.
9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit.
10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most power force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you.
11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you.
12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due.
13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves.
14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes.
15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else.
16. Keep fit.
17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part.
18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard.
19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for.
20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else.
21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else.
22. Have and nurture friendships with women.
23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss.
24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older.
25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence.
26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity.
27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there.
28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides.
29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about.
30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest.
Monday, March 16, 2009
kalenjin Succes Prayer
In The name ofGod, The Beneficent, The Merciful.
I seek refuge from the accursed Satan, please accept my prayer...
I seek Thy refuge from anxiety and grief,
I seek Thy refuge from lack of strength and laziness,
I seek Thy refuge from cowardice and niggardliness,
I seek Thy refuge from being overpowered by debt and from the oppression of men.
Suffice Thou me, with what is lawful.
Turn away from me the things that Thou prohibit.
And with Thy Grace,
Please keep me free from want of what is besides Thee.
KONGOI CHEPO NGOK, CHEBO NAMU,CHEBO TISAB, CHEBO NAMUN
I seek refuge from the accursed Satan, please accept my prayer...
I seek Thy refuge from anxiety and grief,
I seek Thy refuge from lack of strength and laziness,
I seek Thy refuge from cowardice and niggardliness,
I seek Thy refuge from being overpowered by debt and from the oppression of men.
Suffice Thou me, with what is lawful.
Turn away from me the things that Thou prohibit.
And with Thy Grace,
Please keep me free from want of what is besides Thee.
KONGOI CHEPO NGOK, CHEBO NAMU,CHEBO TISAB, CHEBO NAMUN
Kalenjin National prayer
Among the Kalenjins, may the son be born with spiritual luster;
in this country, may the king be born a warrior,
a capable archer and chariot-fighter;
may the cow be born a milk cow;
the ox a good draught ox;
the horse a fleet one;
the damsel the object of the city's admiration;
the fighter victorious;
and the youth fit for the assembly;
kalenjin hero be born to the performer of the sacrifice;
whenever we wish may the cloud rain;
may our vegetation ripen with fruits;
may there be for us acquisition and conserving [of prosperity].
Truth on how a man can survive tides of times
In ordinary life, truth is what really exists, what a person really knows. Whereas in set it consists of something that is not actually in existence but which could happen. For example, when you go in and you ASSUME ATTRACTION, you going holding the belief that she is already attracted to you,
when this may or not be the case. What’s significant here is the reality of the inner life of the pick up artist, and his belief in that reality. We're not concerned with the actual naturalistic existence of what surrounds us when we're out doing pickup, or the actual reality of the material world! That is of use to us only insofar as it supplies a general background for our feelings. When you have a strong belief in your internal reality, this is what we're talking about when we say you need to maintain a "strong frame.” In other words, you need to have an unshakable belief that your perspective is the "correct" one, the one that corresponds with "objective reality," even if outside circumstances seem to indicate otherwise. What you have to do is put life into all the *imagined*
circumstances and actions that you must go into set with (i.e. assumed attraction and rapport, "alpha" status in set)until you have completely satisfied your sense of truth, and until you have awakened a sense of FAITH in the reality of your sensations. Truth in set is whatever we can believe in with sincerity,
whether in ourselves or in our wingmen. Truth can't be separated from belief, or vice versa. Everything that happens in set must be convincing to the pickup artist himself, to his associates and to the targets. It must inspire belief in the possibility, in real life, of emotions analogous to those being experienced by the pickup
artist. Each and every moment must be saturated with a belief in the truthfulness of the emotion felt, and in the action carried out, by the pickup artist. There are guys that are so strict with themselves in adhering to the "objective truth" that they often carry that attitude, without being conscious of it, to extremes that amount to
falseness. You shouldn't exaggerate your preference for truth and your abhorrence of "lies," because it tends to make you overplay truth for its own sake, and that, in itself, is the worst of lies. Try to be cool and impartial. Remember that reality in and of itself is by its very nature a subjective experience. You can even get some use from "falseness" if you're reasonable in your approach to it. It sets the pitch for you and shows you
what you should NOT do. Under such conditions, you can use a slight error to determine the line you shouldn't cross. The most important thing to remember is that you should never lose your SELF in the set. Always act in your own person, as an artist. You can never get away from yourself. The moment you lose
yourself in the set marks the departure from truly living and the beginning of exaggerated, false "acting."
This is what we call "incongruity." And women can sense it VERY well. Always and forever, when you're interacting with women, you MUST be yourself. The thing is, it's in an infinite variety of combinations of objectives, and given circumstances which present themselves in the field, and which have been smelted in the furnace of your emotion memory. You can't repeat an accidental sensation you may have in set,
any more than you can revive a dead flower. It's far better to try to create something new than to waste your efforts on dead things. How to go about it? First of all, don't worry about the flower, just water the roots, or plant new seeds. Many guys work in the opposite direction. If they achieve some accidental success in an interaction, they want to repeat it, and they try to get at those feelings directly, to conjure them up by mechanically repeating the words as a "routine.” The thing is, that's like trying to raise flowers without the cooperation of nature, and you can't do that unless you're willing to be satisfied with artificial blossoms. Don't think about the desired outcome of the routine itself, but set your mind to work on what makes it grow, what the conditions were that brought about the experience. Never begin with results. They will appear in time as the logical outcome of what has gone before. On the surface, these may seem like some fairly esoteric concepts. But to guys who are in the field consistently, they will understand immediately what I'm getting at here. Nothing beats field experience. No amount of intellectualizing or reading of newsletters, even one as badass as this one, can
replace good old-fashioned fieldwork. That's what makes our live, in-field programs such an incredible
value. Take our Super conferences, for example. These programs, held monthly in a different major metropolitan area, bring together some of the best guys in the game for a seminar/workshop combe that will rock your world. Over the course of the program, you'll be bombarded with MOUNTAINS of cutting-edge information to rocket your game to the next level. Armed with this information, you'll be able to:
1. Approach any group of people without fear or hesitation.
2. Immediately capture their undivided attention.
3. Separate yourself from the competition.
4. Build attraction within minutes (if not seconds).
5. Consistently establish comfort and trust.
6. Deflect any opposition with conversational ninjitsu.
7. Demonstrate that your standards are extremely high.
8. Seal the deal consistently!
when this may or not be the case. What’s significant here is the reality of the inner life of the pick up artist, and his belief in that reality. We're not concerned with the actual naturalistic existence of what surrounds us when we're out doing pickup, or the actual reality of the material world! That is of use to us only insofar as it supplies a general background for our feelings. When you have a strong belief in your internal reality, this is what we're talking about when we say you need to maintain a "strong frame.” In other words, you need to have an unshakable belief that your perspective is the "correct" one, the one that corresponds with "objective reality," even if outside circumstances seem to indicate otherwise. What you have to do is put life into all the *imagined*
circumstances and actions that you must go into set with (i.e. assumed attraction and rapport, "alpha" status in set)until you have completely satisfied your sense of truth, and until you have awakened a sense of FAITH in the reality of your sensations. Truth in set is whatever we can believe in with sincerity,
whether in ourselves or in our wingmen. Truth can't be separated from belief, or vice versa. Everything that happens in set must be convincing to the pickup artist himself, to his associates and to the targets. It must inspire belief in the possibility, in real life, of emotions analogous to those being experienced by the pickup
artist. Each and every moment must be saturated with a belief in the truthfulness of the emotion felt, and in the action carried out, by the pickup artist. There are guys that are so strict with themselves in adhering to the "objective truth" that they often carry that attitude, without being conscious of it, to extremes that amount to
falseness. You shouldn't exaggerate your preference for truth and your abhorrence of "lies," because it tends to make you overplay truth for its own sake, and that, in itself, is the worst of lies. Try to be cool and impartial. Remember that reality in and of itself is by its very nature a subjective experience. You can even get some use from "falseness" if you're reasonable in your approach to it. It sets the pitch for you and shows you
what you should NOT do. Under such conditions, you can use a slight error to determine the line you shouldn't cross. The most important thing to remember is that you should never lose your SELF in the set. Always act in your own person, as an artist. You can never get away from yourself. The moment you lose
yourself in the set marks the departure from truly living and the beginning of exaggerated, false "acting."
This is what we call "incongruity." And women can sense it VERY well. Always and forever, when you're interacting with women, you MUST be yourself. The thing is, it's in an infinite variety of combinations of objectives, and given circumstances which present themselves in the field, and which have been smelted in the furnace of your emotion memory. You can't repeat an accidental sensation you may have in set,
any more than you can revive a dead flower. It's far better to try to create something new than to waste your efforts on dead things. How to go about it? First of all, don't worry about the flower, just water the roots, or plant new seeds. Many guys work in the opposite direction. If they achieve some accidental success in an interaction, they want to repeat it, and they try to get at those feelings directly, to conjure them up by mechanically repeating the words as a "routine.” The thing is, that's like trying to raise flowers without the cooperation of nature, and you can't do that unless you're willing to be satisfied with artificial blossoms. Don't think about the desired outcome of the routine itself, but set your mind to work on what makes it grow, what the conditions were that brought about the experience. Never begin with results. They will appear in time as the logical outcome of what has gone before. On the surface, these may seem like some fairly esoteric concepts. But to guys who are in the field consistently, they will understand immediately what I'm getting at here. Nothing beats field experience. No amount of intellectualizing or reading of newsletters, even one as badass as this one, can
replace good old-fashioned fieldwork. That's what makes our live, in-field programs such an incredible
value. Take our Super conferences, for example. These programs, held monthly in a different major metropolitan area, bring together some of the best guys in the game for a seminar/workshop combe that will rock your world. Over the course of the program, you'll be bombarded with MOUNTAINS of cutting-edge information to rocket your game to the next level. Armed with this information, you'll be able to:
1. Approach any group of people without fear or hesitation.
2. Immediately capture their undivided attention.
3. Separate yourself from the competition.
4. Build attraction within minutes (if not seconds).
5. Consistently establish comfort and trust.
6. Deflect any opposition with conversational ninjitsu.
7. Demonstrate that your standards are extremely high.
8. Seal the deal consistently!
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